What did you wish someone told you before your first EHCP meeting?

Print the SEND Code of Practice sections about parental participation. When they tried to rush me, I pointed to page 152. Changed the whole dynamic. You have rights - know them before you go in.

Take someone with you. I went alone and got overwhelmed by all the professionals in the room. Having my partner there the second time made such a difference. Also, request the draft plan at least a week before if you can.